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Wednesday, January 22, 2020

May 2012

It's difficult to believe two years have gone by. Today is the 9th of May. I believe is was Saturday or Sunday, the 8th or 9th of May that Don had the inspired idea of gathering us for waffles at Mom and Dad's house. Dad was weak, but he made a good showing. He seemed to have eaten more than he should have and felt ill. The next week went by, like others in the past couple of months: tentative. Mom was ever apprehensive about whether she needed to bring Dad to the ER.
   It was a Wednesday, in the middle of the night, when Mom awoke, because Dad had fallen in their room, getting up to use the bathroom. She helped him and he insisted he was okay.
   They fell back asleep.
    Dad woke with a severe headache. Alex had come over that morning to help around the house. Mom and Alex brought him up to the ER.
   Dad had experienced a cerebral hemorhage. He stayed in the ICU. The bleeding appeared to have stopped and he was talking. He was transferred to a regular room. Was that Saturday, Sunday, or Monday night?  I came to visit and he did not seem well at all. I wondered at the doctor's decision to transfer him to the "regular" floor.

Sunday, January 20, 2013


Thinking about you today Daddy.

Friday, January 20, 2012

Happy Birthday Dad

Thinking about all the wonderful birthday parties over the years.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

A Letter from Dad, c. 1972

Dad wrote me this letter while I ("Margarat") was away at summer camp,1972 or '73. I rediscovered it last year.

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Remembering

Thinking about you Dad. You're in just about everything I see. You'd love the Christmas tree this year — I'm passing down all of your tips on how to make the tree beautiful; setting the lights and glass balls deep into the branches. I'm keeping the birds (and squirrels) well-fed on cracked corn and suet. You'd love the red-bellied woodpecker who has taken up residence; he's beautiful. Nothing is the same without you, but I'm doing my best to remember you in all the best ways possible and make you proud.


At work (posed) on a golf scape in his Farmington studio.

Diana Turasi, Dad, and Coach Auriema, with his painting of Turasi donated to UConn.

At a Society of Illustrator's exhibition with my mom, his surrealist golf series, commissioned by Sports Illustrated is in the background.